The Meyers 5

2012-02-03T15:09:00.000-06:00

Things I LOVE right now, this very minute!

Scratch cupcakes

Lilli coming home for the weekend unexpectedly and a husband that will drop everything to go get her

Going to basketball games and seeing Andy "dunk" it

Planning a family adventure for Spring Break

Spring Break

Getting home from work at 1:30 on Fridays

Looking at baby pictures of the boys

Pete getting excited for football

One of my students who was in a homeless shelter moving into an apartment

Making mashed potatoes and gravy for dinner

A kitty app for the ipad for Meg to play with

The little things...

2012-01-12T17:51:00.000-06:00

The First Snow......

Today was the first snow of the winter in Iowa--January 12! This made me realize that I don't stop to notice the little things enough, so here goes.
Some of the "little things" I'm thankful for:

*A day at school when I DON'T have to call security

*Going to the refrigerator and finding that the diet coke I had hidden, hadn't been found

*A new episode of American Pickers

*Finding a sweater I love on clearance--extra 33% off!

*Going to an auction and getting a whole box of vintage, metal trays for $5.00! and then selling the ones I didn't want on ebay for quite a bit more :)

*Finding a great recipe for oatmeal raisin cookies

The great thing is, all of these things happened this week! Thankfulness is a way of living, I'm trying to get better at it.

Random thoughts

2011-12-05T12:56:00.002-06:00

Sometimes we hear things and think, "Wow, that's so true!" and they promptly leave our heads forever. A few weeks ago I heard one of those things, but it hasn't left my head and it keeps popping up in my life. I'm thinking I need to pay attention to it and look for ways to show it and share it.

The thing I heard:

It's more important to DO right, than it is to BE right.

So:

*When I want to correct someone or they are correcting me and I'm annoyed--Do right

*When I feel slighted and want to return the favor---Do right

*When I could ignore something, but my ego doesn't want to---Do right

*When I see someone in need and I can help--Do right

*When I can share what I have---Do right

*When I feel like doing nothing, but I have the ability to do something--Do right

*When I can keep my opinion to myself and listen to someone else's--Do right

The list could go on forever, but this is where I am today. Where are you?

2011-11-17T21:02:00.001-06:00

                                  For:

*Pastors that preach the Word
*Awesome children
*Great people to work with
*Betsy and Meg
*Husband that never balks at home projects
*Targets with Starbucks
*Jigsaw puzzles and a puzzle table to do them on
*Time for baking
*Christmas music
*Christmas lights
*Friends who understand "happy" tears
*Seeing former students who are successful
*Lowe's
*Bezzerwizzer with the family

Rebels-Fall 2011 Sr. Night

2011-10-24T14:14:00.000-05:00

Bittersweet time of Life....

Some pics of Senior Night with Andy

Some of my favorites....

2011-10-03T15:57:00.000-05:00

There is nothing more precious than time spent reading with little ones. I love children's books and count every minute I spent reading them with my kids as the most precious, even as they got older and we read chapter books together. These are just a few of our favorites....when you have a minute, check them out!

2011-09-19T16:31:00.000-05:00

Just Some Projects at Home....

I just remembered that I previously said I'd post pics of some of the projects we've been working on. This is our downstairs bathroom. I've recently fallen back in love with wedgewood blue, so blue it is-for now anyway. Colors don't last long at our house. Thankfully, I have a patient husband who's willing to humor me.

Here are a few pics of the living room with new furniture. When Lilli moved to Iowa City, she needed a couch and chair....so, what's a mom to do, but sacrifice her furniture for her beloved daughter.

We also have been doing a bunch of things in the backyard and Lilli's room---I'll try to be better about posting those soon.

Are You Ready for some Football?

2011-09-07T21:47:00.000-05:00

Rebel Football 2011

Andy with the other Captains and the Honorary Captain

Pete entertaining the crowd on the sidelines

Both of the boys getting personal coaching

After the Grundy Center game talking to the fam

Talking to Papa and Liz

This year we get to watch the boys play together again--we didn't think that would happen past jr. high. It's great to watch them warming up together and talking on the sidelines. It's pretty special.

Under "construction".....

2011-08-22T13:39:00.000-05:00

This time of year always brings out a desire in me to re-do things at home! Maybe it's getting the house ready for winter when we'll be trapped indoors for months at a time. This year, it's partly that and partly having one less person living there and wanting to occupy my time.

Projects in progress:

*Painting and redecorating the downstairs bathroom (with the upstairs one to follow)

*Sanding, prepping, and painting an antique bed and dresser to put in Lilli's room--since she took all of her things with her

*New living room furniture/configuration--Lilli even took our living room furniture!

*Relandscaping our backyard--moving plants to the stream, taking out some bushes that don't "match" my yard :), and putting in some new perrennials

*Just finished painting one side of the house

As I look back, I'm using the word "I" quite liberally--Joel is doing the lion's share of the work, but I'm great with the ideas and planning! I love the way a room looks with new paint!
I'll post some pics soon!

Happy Fall and if you need an idea person for re-doing something, call!
(I chose this picture because I've been threatening Joel with painting something this color, he's not on board yet.)

2011-08-07T21:14:00.000-05:00

Sunday Musings

I'm thankful.....

For friends and family that have been encouraging Lilli every step of the way and will continue to pray for her and support her at school!

For our church where we're held accountable and made to think about our actions which can be uncomfortable, but is so necessary.

For family that love our kids and are convinced that they're the best! :)

For jobs where we can touch and help people and have great coworkers.

For 75 degree weather.

For my aunt Pat, she is simply the best!

For a home to decorate and husband who is always willing to do the work that I envision.
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For a dog that will walk with me whenever and wherever I want her to.

For the ability to see the blessings in my life.

Are you ready for some Football?!

2011-08-01T13:15:00.000-05:00

Football Time!!!

This week is the beginning of "the season"! I love it! Andy gets to be a part of hosting a football camp for elementary school kids tomorrow and Wednesday through Friday both boys will be going to high school football camp. Mind you, this isn't singing, s'mores, and games--but they call it camp anyway. This camp consists of running, sweating, lifting, groaning and for some, throwing up even!
Every year, I have mixed feelings at this time of year because I love watching them play, but I also know that it's one year closer to them being done with high school. When the boys were little, I thought that it would be hard to see them be attached to other adults, but their relationships with their coaches and teachers has been a true blessing to them and to us. As parents, we of course think our kids are great :), but it's nice to know that others like them too.

I also love this time of year because college and NFL games will follow right behind the start of the high school season--our college team was picked unanimously to be the conference winner again. This football season is bringing quite a change to the Meyers household--one that we never could have foreseen or prepared for. One of us is becoming an Iowa Hawkeye, we intentionally raised our children to shun all things U of I. But, as Lilli is starting there in a few weeks for nursing school, our loyalties are utterly divided. How do we, with a clear conscience, send money and a child to the school without
semi-supporting it? It will be an interesting few months. Realistically, football isn't the epitome of importance- or so I've been told anyway. But, what we know to be true and how it plays out aren't exactly the same thing.

All that being said, Happy Football to all and to all a great season!

Thankful Thursday!

2011-07-21T17:10:00.000-05:00

Orchard Hill Church

Sunflowers in my garden

Countdown to football started

Drumsticks-- the ice cream kind :)

Joel going grocery shopping with me

Time to read my Book Club book

A break in the heat

Walking with Betsy

Price is Right--lame I know, but I love when I get to watch it!

Cherry tomatoes fresh from the garden--not my garden yet, but somebody's! :)

Summer lovin"...

2011-07-12T15:23:00.000-05:00

Summer lovin', had me a blast! (Read with music playing in your mind please. Yes, I love the movie Grease!)

S---sandals
U---unplanned events
M---marigolds
M---mowing
E---evening walks
R---raspberries

L---lemonade
O---our pond
V---vacations
I---ice cream
N'---nature

Bittersweet....

2011-07-01T16:11:00.000-05:00

My personal definition of the word bittersweet:

Finishing an awesome book

Daughters getting into the school they really wanted

Sons applying to schools to serve their country

Youngest sons asking to sign up to take the ACT

Vacations at the lake with the family

Senior pictures

Summer

Students moving on after having them for a year

Gardening .....

2011-06-26T19:04:00.000-05:00

Yay! My raspberries and strawberries are ready! I love the process of planning, tilling, planting, watering, weeding, and harvesting my garden. This year I planted corn, tomatoes, peppers, peas, sunflowers and have a strawberry and raspberry patch. I often plant things just because I love the way they look, i.e. peppers. I love the colors and sharing them with friends--don't love the taste so much.

I also love flower gardening, it's amazing to see the creativity of our Creator. There are so many colors, shapes, scents and varieties. I've found myself returning to "old-fashioned" ones in the past few years. I've planted a daisy garden, columbine, and bleeding hearts. Daisies simply make me happy to see--it's like a garden of smiley faces.

Counting the days.....

2011-06-19T18:30:00.002-05:00

Our family countdown has begun....our annual trip to Northern Minnesota. There is nothing better than the moment we pull out of the driveway together. No phones, no computers, no TV. We spend the time fishing, reading, boating, fishing, grilling, eating ice cream, fishing, looking for bears...you get the idea and if not, watch the movie The Great Outdoors--an old classic we watch before taking off every year to get ready.

Each year becomes more precious as the kids get older and we know that soon they might not be able to join us. We're hoping that they'll all be able to work their schedules go with us for many years.

15, 14, 13.....

The Joys of Parenting

2011-06-11T20:19:00.001-05:00

Pete and I have begun a new venture! We have been attending auctions, buying merchandise and selling it online. It is so much fun to have a common interest and get to spend time with my 15-year old. We have been learning together about the costs of business, dividends (his favorite part), and the importance of buying things others will like-not stuff we want to keep!

Lilli is waiting to find out where she will attend nursing school. It is a joy to watch your children become the people they were meant to be. She is spending more and more time with some mission projects which may ultimately help her decide where she wants to go. Wherever she ends up, it will be where she's meant to be and doing what she was created to do.

What a joy it was to travel to New York to spend the day with Andy when he graduated from a Leadership Seminar at West Point! It was like stepping onto the real-life grounds of Hogwarts! I was amazed and impressed with both the young people there for the seminar and the young people that are cadets at the school. As a speaker shared, "This is actually the Greatest Generation. This generation is coming of age in a more turbulent time than ever in history, and will deal with things we could never have anticipated. " I think we're in good hands.

Summer 2011 Favorites (not including the stuff I'm supposed to say-hubby, kids, jobs, etc) :)

2011-06-08T16:00:00.001-05:00

Wordless Wednesday---Summer 2011 Favorites

Summer has begun!

2011-06-01T19:25:00.001-05:00

Summer has started--officially! I always forget that summer is just as crazy as the school year. In the 5 days since the boys finished their freshman and junior years of high school and Lilli finished her year of college, this is what's occurred:

Lilli started summer school, went to Kansas City to visit my beloved aunt and her great-aunt, redecorated her room, started looking for a new part-time job, checked the mailbox and email approximately 50 times a day to see about her nursing school application, worked on a transitional house with her dad, brothers and boyfriend, played with kids at Cedar Valley Youth Art Team, and spent some time doing her cousin's fingernails, to name a few

Andy finished his military packets, finished the soccer season, started summer weightlifting, went paintballing with the football team, worked on a transitional house, has been working at the hardware store, went to basketball camp, packed for his two weeks away, helped with a Memorial Day get-together with family and is turning 17 tomorrow

Pete has been fishing 4 times, went paintballing, started summer weightlifting, worked on a transitional house, has been attending Driver's Ed, went to detasseling meeting, has been disc golfing, helped with scoreboard at a few soccer games, has helped at the hardware store, played some PS3 and much more

When does school start again?! I already feel a bit overwhelmed! I started back to teaching today though, so I can go there and get a rest. :) But in all honesty, I truly love summer! Today both of my sons came to get me at work and we got to do a little shopping and have lunch together. I feel pretty Blessed!

Andy-this week!

2011-05-29T10:39:00.001-05:00

New week, same 16-year old, new experiences. This Saturday we're going to put our 16-year old on a plane to Newark, New Jersey to change planes twice, arrive, find his transportation to upstate New York and then paticipate in a 7-day leadership seminar at West Point Academy. When he gets home, he has two days to get ready to do the same thing on the other side of the country at the Air Force Academy. Is the same young man who thinks it's fun to get punched in the face ready for this? I think so. It is scary, to say the least, for his mom. But, it will be a chance for him to see what military life is like-on a very short-term scale. Prayers for Andy and mom would be greatly appreciated! :)

I missed bloggging!

2011-05-25T12:48:00.003-05:00

I'm baaackkkk! I found that I've really missed having a place to share random thoughts, opinions, questions, etc, so here I am.

For today: Why do sixteen-year old boys have to act so much like sixteen-year old boys? As he walks in the door obviously hiding one side of his face from his fairly perceptive mom, I'm thinking, "Hmmm, what could this mean?" It means that he is sporting a huge cheek that subsequently became bigger and bigger and more and more bruised. Why you may ask? Because he and his "friends" thought it would be funny to videotape each other taking a punch in the face to post on YouTube. My response, bursting into tears. It was not my intention, but this may have been the best accidental punishment a 16-year old boy can be subjected to. (Moms--use this sparingly, but it does work.) So, in the scope of things, it could be worse. Although having to buy a new heating pad, pay for x-rays, having many "discussions" about choices which will probably make him think twice wasn't what I would have chosen, he's a great kid and I love him a lot!--just quit acting your age!

2011-02-21T20:12:00.005-06:00

This is our way of saying TTFN. Thanks for reading, keep up with our family on Facebook, through email or heck, give us a call anytime!---The Meyers

Mid-winter Thaw!

2011-02-19T17:53:00.005-06:00

When you live in Iowa, there is nothing more welcome than an unseasonably warm day in the middle of winter! This week we enjoyed just such an occurrence and loved every minute of it. We were recovering from a 2-week subzero snap when, out of the blue we were Blessed with a 70 degree day. It's the thing that helps us survive the rest of February and March. It's at times like this that I'm truly thankful to be able to raise my family in Iowa. We get to enjoy God's handiwork in all seasons and conditions. Open windows and Robins in February which gave me my first opportunity to open the Iowa bird book that my aunt sent me last week.

My challenge to all this week: Look around and find the little things that you're thankful for!

February 14th-the Happiest Day of the Year!

2011-02-12T10:09:00.004-06:00

Happy Valentine's Day!!! This is my favorite day of the year-and always has been! I love the decorations, the colors, the candy, the flowers, the LOVE!!! So, brighten someone's day and Valentine It Up this year!

$5 chair makeover

2011-01-20T11:11:00.004-06:00

We bought this chair for $5 several years ago and have recovered it three times. Here are some photos of the before, during and after of our most recent makeover.

Nothings makes us happier than taking something that is "garbage" and recreating it into something beautiful. I cringe at throwing things away that still have some life in them-my love of recycling coming out--be it an old chair or an old home. Next project: Andy converting the bed of his truck to a basketball court with a standard height hoop!

Christmas in Branson!

2011-01-05T18:51:00.001-06:00

Christmas is already over?!!

2010-12-28T09:34:00.003-06:00

Highlights from our trip to Branson:

*Silver Dollar City

*Cooking class

*A Christmas Carol

*A trip to a wax museum--what trip to Branson would be complete without it?!!

As I contemplate 2011 I'm looking forward to a great year of sports, another round of senior pics (Andy has already asked if he has to have them taken), college visits, teaching, seeing new places and most importantly, growing in the Lord!

May 2011 be filled with Blessings and joy!

Branson, here we come!

2010-12-17T15:56:00.002-06:00

We're off to Branson for the week! We've never been and are looking forward to a week of relaxing, playing cards, looking at lights, taking a cooking class and riding some rides! Lilli and Joel will also be doing a college visit---yes, she's already in college, but is now looking for one for nursing school. Rather than spend a ton of money on gifts, we like to take time to spend together. So, we're staying at The Chateau on the Lake (with a spa) and can't wait!

Merry, Merry!

2010-12-13T10:59:00.004-06:00

Merry Christmas to Everyone!

There is nothing as special to me as spending a night at home with my kids--even more now than when they were little, because now they choose to be with us. When they were little-what choice did they have? This weekend I got to do that and it was awesome. It doesn't mean that we sat around singing carols and finding new ways to express our admiration for each other--we were just together doing "what we do" and I love it! Do that this weekend with your family!

This year, especially, I have been reflecting on how blessed we are to have a church, a family, a home, jobs, opportunity to share with others, and laughter. As I think about, and plan for, 2011 it is my wish to live a life that reflects my Creator and to view others as reflections of that Creator. I won't be perfect-far from it! But, if each day is only a little bit better than the one before it, than yea God because it's not me, it's Him!

Now....off to grades papers, bake cookies, do a little gift wrapping and pack for a little family adventure to Missouri. Merry Christmas to all!

Uh, thank you, thank you very much....

2010-11-18T16:06:00.003-06:00

Thankful for......

*Our church

*Healthy, happy family

*Good jobs

*Time to spend with people we love

*Kids we love and like

*Turkey and all the extras-like Devilled eggs!

*Things that make us laugh

*Our home

*The Pilgrims? :)

*Most importantly--Freedom to worship Our Savior

Play-offs!!!

2010-10-26T18:54:00.006-05:00

As of Friday, Andy's team is officially in the playoffs! They had the opportunity to play a team from a state training school Friday. It was a great experience. On the way home on the bus, he texted me that it was the best game he'd ever played in. He told us that they helped them up, told them good job and after the game, told them "Good luck in the playoffs!" It was encouraging to see young men changing their lives for the better and getting a chance to change their future.

We just found out that our high school was chosen to do a "High School Game Day" on TV tomorrow. The kids need to be at the school at 5 AM and will be interviewed and have a chance to mimic "College Game Day"--it will be a great memory for them. (The football coaches aren't thrilled to say the least--loss of focus, loss of sleep, etc., but they told the boys they trust them to make the right decision about being a part of it---Andy took that to mean he should go. :) )

2010-09-18T20:46:00.005-05:00

My Moss Roses A Lily in Our Pond My Rose Tree

The seasons are changing, it's time to clean up the yard for winter and my hummingbirds and finches won't be around for long. So, I thought I'd share a few pictures of summer before it's gone for a while. I have a fascination with the little hummingbird, so tiny, yet so industrious. We have a few types that frequent our backyard and I never tire of watching them flit from our apple tree to the feeder to the flowers and back again. The thought of battening down the hatches for winter is not something I like to think about, because I so love being in the yard, walking Betsy, and fishing. Having pics like this help me remember that the next season is always just around the corner!

All back to school....

2010-08-30T06:29:00.002-05:00

The school year has started for the kids and me (Laura). It's always a bittersweet time. It's exciting to have everything starting up again--sports, school activities, UNI games, etc. but I also get a bit sad that another summer is gone and another year of having the kids at home has passed.

Andy had his first game Friday. We won 34-7 and he did well. Pete's first one is tonight. We'll be traveling quite a bit for the next few months. (That also means I'll be praying a lot for safety for them and the other boys. :) )

Yesterday I was reminded of the importance of being a Christian Monday-Saturday where I spend most of my time-at home and at work. I'm going to be more intentional about showing Whose I am through my actions in those places. It's easy to do that at church, not so easy the other 6 days!

Blessings

Craziness!

2010-08-13T09:55:00.003-05:00

I love the craziness of having 3 teenagers--it's kind of like having three kids under the age of 4 again! Someone is always coming, going, needing something, eating, laughing...you get the picture. As they get older, we see the adults they will be someday and it's exciting. More importantly, I love that they love Jesus and each other. This weekend they are going on a road trip to Minneapolis together--yes, I'm a little nervous, but I'm so happy they like to be together. As the boys battle the 100 degree heat at football and Lilli finishes a summer of taking 15 college credit hours, they find time to have fun together and that does a mother's heart good.

(Andy attempting to help his siste and brother tube at the lake-he was very patient!)

2010-08-07T17:11:00.003-05:00

Football time! This is our favorite time of the year! The boys started 4-hour practices this week and will have them until school starts on August 18th. Then when games start, we'll have 3 HS games a week and one college game. I love it! We had our first football injury last night-Pete came home with a 1-inch long gash in his mouth from where his braces connected with his lip and someone else's head. (I think he'll be wearing that braces mouthguard from now on. :) )

On a different note, today Joel and the boys put a roof on Pops' garage (that's Joel's dad), so they could learn how to roof. They did a great job and now they'll be ready for when they buy their own homes someday.

Helping with RAGBRAI

2010-07-30T09:27:00.002-05:00

Yesterday was an awesome day! Joel, Pete and I got the privilege of helping when RAGBRAI came through Waterloo. Perfect weather, great location, and 25,000 people riding or helping riders makes for a fun day. We got to work at Hawkeye Community College-the "quiet" camp. Over the day we talked to people from Canada, Texas, Florida, Minnesota, Illinois, and Iowa--not to mention all of the people we talked to, but don't know where they're from! (I think there are people from every state.) It is amazing to see that many people having fun together and seeing our state.

If you like to bike, you should definitely give this a try. If you don't like to bike, but want to be a part of it anyway--you should also think about volunteering or being a support person.

Today we're helping a friend move in a torrential downpour!--wishing for yesterday's weather. :)

Yikes, could I be a worse blogger?!!

2010-07-18T15:38:00.003-05:00

Just a quick update about the family and sharing of a blog post that will change how you look at your kids or grandkids I think.

Update: We are just back from "our cabin" in Minnesota. We had a great time, great weather and great fishing. We all are sad to come home every year, this year maybe more so because next year it may just be Joel, the boys and me. Lilli is thinking of spending the summer overseas. Change is hard for me, I just don't like it!

The kids are all detasseling right now--90-100 degree weather, bugs, mud, and corn do not make for a great combination, but the paycheck helps a little. Lilli is planning to replace her third car, Andy needs money for gas and spending money as he's heading to Florida next week on a youth conference, and Pete is looking for a small fishing boat. We are encouraging saving a little and giving some to others. Parents--ughh!

Joel and I have been redoing a few rooms in our house--not a surprise---and are planning to start redoing our walk-up attic. (the heat is putting that on hold a bit) We are also counting the days for football season to start---each week will consist of a Freshman game, a JV game, a Varsity game and a UNI game. I love this time of year! Thanks for reading. If you're out there, let us know

Here's the blog post I wanted to share--you might need some kleenex:

A mom, dad, and two little boys sit down at the table next to me.

The dad is kind of serious looking. Dark hair, tall, broad shoulders, scanning the room with an empty stare, completely unaware of the breakfast discussion that is happening right next to him.

Mom is feisty. She has the rough and tough mannerisms of a mom who is raising two boys and has been away from the female race long enough to lose joy in picking out the perfect muffin. "Whadya want to eat? Come on? It's not that hard... just pick something." She points to something in the pastry case for herself and orders without truly looking.

The little boys, probably eleven and nine, are dirty and sweaty, fidgety and totally bored. It's Saturday morning and although they aren't sporting a baseball uniform, I'm quite sure she has just scraped them up from some park and put them in the car against their will. I think she's put the husband in the car against his will for that matter too. And there they sit, distracted and totally uninterested in pastries, muffins, and one another. Their faces say, "Saturday is for sports, for hobbies, for guy stuff... not these stupid muffins and family talk time."

Three men. Three islands.

Any minute I expect her to stand up, slam her hands on the table, grab the attention of the men in her life and say (with a fiercely threatening voice that makes you think she might not cook ever again or that she might pull her girl card and cry right there in front of God and everyone), "WE will enjoy this *&*$%^* breakfast as a FAMILY whether you want to or not!"

But she weathers the silence with grace and patience and somehow she draws everyone in with a series of questions and jokes.

Suddenly they are talking. The three islands are talking. This woman is amazing.

I think to myself... if I had been her I would've spewed my venom at them for their lack of interest and for making me do all the emotional, conversational work. I might have clamped my lips shut in a passive aggressive protest of their little care and concern for me and my family breakfast plans.

"Poor me. My boys won't talk to me. I'll show them." And then, as only a woman can do, I would make them endure my brutal silence as punishment for not loving me well. But she didn't do any of those things. She didn't get her feelings hurt. She didn't retreat. She didn't punish them with her silence. She fought for her children's words. She won a small victory.

an aside:
This mom showed me that no matter what your child is: boy/girl, shy/personable, angry/happy, interested/uninterested; a diligent effort to emotionally engage your children, will, more than likely, pay off.

Now, the conversation is marked by the laughter of these two little boys and the dad's full attention.

And me?
Well, I am the creep sitting at the next table watching them... but in my defense I am a very happy creep who just witnessed a mom being a really good mom. And I am relishing in the moment of this ladies victory.

Of Course...
This is all ruined when the nine year old kid, who, by the looks of his wild impulsive eyes suffers from some form of attention deficit, grabs a rock from the fountain behind him and throws it.

I'm not sure what it hit, but it ricocheted, it's path of destruction eternally long and it was loud enough that the entire restaurant stopped and took a collective breathe.

The morning was, yet again, ruined.

The dad instinctively grabbed the son by the leg in anger. The mom shot straight in, "What are you doing? What are you doing? Why would you do that?" People's eyes bore into them. All four of them. The dad's grip tightened. His stern look was debilitating even for me.

It stemmed from embarrassment of course. That's what I'm learning. A lot of times we parents are reactionary. What deserves a normal- don't do that- turns into a swift and militant response when the kid is 'doing that' in front of lots of people and we find ourselves cringing.

Inevitably this response, though, leaves the child embarrassed. And this nine year old followed protocol.

He looked down at his legs and his eyes burned with tears that he kept sucking back. I watched his whole body sink and deflate as his little brother stared at him. In his mind, I guess the whole world was staring at him. He kept his head down like a dog who had been scolded and wouldn't make eye contact with anyone. He went to his own universe. And they to theirs.

Mom acted like nothing happened, but the tension came all the way over to the creepy girl's table and I was as stressed as she was.

The mom did as many moms do. She tried to make it better. Tried to talk to the little boy and ask him questions from across the table. But he wasn't buying, he wouldn't raise his eyes above table level. Dad tried to smooth things over by talking to mom, laughing about something terribly not-funny; he was keeping the pep in the deflated family breakfast trip, but he was failing miserably too.

I had written the rest of the story in my mind. They will leave. Mom frustrated- which always leads to tears. Dad frustrated- which sometimes leads to throwing the towel in and making the rest of the day a "personal day" as Ryan calls it. Big brother either smugly satisfied that the blame could all lie on his counterpart or angry that that his counterpart ruined the morning. And little guy... hurt and angry, embarrassed, would spend his Saturday sulking.

I was all torn up. It was like watching my own reality show except no one won any money and they all ended up going back home empty handed. I freaking hate reality shows. I scolded myself. Why do I watch them? They came so close. I stopped watching and went back to writing my book.

The Touch
And then it happened. A human touch.

Something came over the father's face. His countenance changed.

He turned his body towards his son who was sitting one bench over. He put one arm around his shoulder, another under his knees, and with one big swoop he lifted the little boy up, put him directly on his lap, wrapped his arms around his chest, and bear hugged him. He whispered into his ear and kissed his cheek. He held him there. Not letting go. And there they sat. In the middle of a busy restaurant. A shamed nine year old boy. In his dad's lap. A grown man. Putting himself aside. A human touch.

It was one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen a dad do. Ever.

And, in one moment, that human touch redeemed the entire morning.

The boy, of course, fought it in the beginning. Still sulking. Head down. A little scowl. But the longer the dad held on. The longer he hugged. The more this big, strong, grown man whispered into his little boys ear... you could visibly see it, the wall of shame and defense began to crumble. The embarrassment was left on the other bench. The little boy let go of the anger, came out of hiding, and felt safe again. Loved. Liked, even.

I no longer felt creepy. I felt honored. I found myself with tears burning my eyes as I watched what grace looks like. Grace with skin on it. And I found myself, in that busy restaurant, sitting in my own father's lap as he hugged me, told me I was beautiful, told me to forget about what happened, told me he loved me. I fought it, of course. I wasn't even sure that I had done anything to make me feel like I needed to be lovingly taken back into the family (like throwing a rock that made a whole restaurant stop and gape) ... still, I had an overwhelming sense that I needed it. Right then. Right there.

I squirmed a bit and felt way too grown up for what was happening. I suppose I'd much rather be left alone to sulk. I tried to get my shoulders free. But that whisper. Leave me alone, I'm the one who screwed up and everybody knows it. But that kiss. A feeling of annoyance. Please just stop. But that gentle squeeze. A denial. But that acceptance. A rejection. But that hug... the one I didn't want... right there in the middle of the restaurant...

intimately, strongly, lovingly I was swooped up unto my father's lap

before I knew it, I was smiling

I am loved.

Prom 2010

2010-05-04T22:02:00.004-05:00

Prom 2010 has come and gone. Lilli and Bryant went to their second Prom this year. Andy went with a friend from youth group that is a junior. In my humble opinion, they were the best looking siblings there. They had fun!

The Prom is held in a small town between Reinbeck and Gladbrook. Everyone from both towns comes to watch the kids walk into the dance. The kids drive the coolest car or biggest truck they can talk someone into loaning them and parade around town, making several passes by the crowd before going in. As they leave the car and walk toward the dance down the street, their names are annouced over a loud speaker and a group of dads parks the cars. It is really a fun time.

Lilli and Bryant talked my dad into borrowing his Miata. Andy wasn't so lucky. He isn't 16 yet, so he didn't have many car options. He thought about taking the moped, but I don't think his date would have approved.

We're finishing up plans for Lilli's graduation party. I finally got the video done. It is really great to look back at all of the old photos and remember all of the good times we have had as a family. I won't go into all that again...

I hope you enjoy the photos. I'll try to post again sooner.

Joel

How time flies

2010-02-11T22:37:00.003-06:00

Tonight I was downloading some songs we are going to use in a digital scrapbook for Lilli's graduation and I started reminiscing. For those that don't know me, I tend to dislike change and wish for things to slow down. I guess that's why I like antiques, Norman Rockwell paintings, keep boxes and boxes of pictures, and we just now are on Facebook. At one point a few years ago, I really was considering if it would be possible to sell everything, buy an RV, home school the kids, and hit the road. As it turns out, only Pete was on board with that plan.

As we are getting ready for our first child to "leave the nest", I am reflecting on all that has happened over the last 18 years. All the school events, games, parties, vacations, etc.... Although, it is sad to think this season of our life is beginning to end, I feel so blessed to be married to such a wonderful wife and mother and to have such great kids.

Early on, Laura and I made a commitment to live our lives in such a way, that when the day came that our kids left, we would have no regrets about how we did things. I never wanted to say, "I wish we did this, or that when the kids were little." We felt our mission and ministry through these last 18 years was to create a home for our children that would allow them to stay innocent as long as possible, a home where they would feel loved, a home that they could see God's love even through two imperfect parents :), a home that would lay the foundation for them to take off into the world, follow God's will, and make it a better place.

Parenting is certainly exhausting work, but I can honestly say that we don't have any (well, maybe a few :)) regrets. So, for those of you just beginning this journey, I encourage you to really think through the next 18 years, pray and decide on a family mission. Follow God's promptings. Be intentional. Have big birthday parties, make crazy Halloween costumes, go on vacations together, go to every school play, every soccer game, every school conference. Take your kids to Sunday School, church, youth group.

Finally, I just wanted to share a poem that Laura and I found one day by Karen Kingsbury. It kind of sums up what I'm trying to say:

Long ago you came to me,
a miracle of firsts,
First smiles and teeth and baby steps,
a sunbeam on the burst.

But one day you will move away
and leave to me your past
And I will be left thinking of
a lifetime of your lasts…

The last time that I held a bottle
to your baby lips
The last time that I lifted you
and held you on my hip.

The last night when you woke up crying,
needing to be walked,
When last you crawled up with your blanket,
wanting to be rocked.

The last time when you ran to me,
still small enough to hold.
The last time that you said you’d marry
me when you grew old.

Precious, simple moments and
bright flashes from your past-
Would I have held on longer if
I’d known they were your last?

Our last adventure to the park,
your final midday nap,
The last time when you wore your favorite
faded baseball cap.

Your last few hours of kindergarten,
those last few days of first grade,
Your last at bat in Little League,
last colored picture made.

I never said good-bye to all
your yesterdays long passed.
So what about tomorrow-
will I recognize your lasts?

The last time that you catch a frog
in that old backyard pond.
The last time that you run barefoot
across our fresh-cut lawn.

Silly, scattered images
will represent your past.
I keep on taking pictures,
never quite sure of your lasts…

The last time that I comb your hair
or stop a pillow fight.
The last time that I pray with you
and tuck you in at night.

The last time when we cuddle
with a book, just me and you
The last time you jump in our bed
and sleep between us two.

The last piano lesson,
last vacation to the lake.
Your last few weeks of middle school,
last soccer goal you make.

I look ahead and dream of days
that haven’t come to pass.
But as I do, I sometimes miss
today’s sweet, precious lasts…

The last time that I help you with
a math or spelling test.
The last time when I shout that yes,
your room is still a mess.

The last time that you need me for
a ride from here to there.
The last time that you spend the night
with your old tattered bear.

My life keeps moving faster,
stealing precious days that pass,
I want to hold on longer-
want to recognize your lasts…

The last time that you need my help
with details of a dance.
The last time that you ask me for
advice about romance.

The last time that you talk to me
about your hopes and dreams.
The last time that you wear a jersey
for your high school team.

I’ve watched you grow and barely noticed
seasons as they pass.
If I could freeze the hands of time,
I’d hold on to your lasts.

For come some bright fall morning,
you’ll be going far away.
College life will beckon
in a brilliant sort of way.

One last hug, one last good-bye,
one quick and hurried kiss.
One last time to understand
just how much you’ll be missed.

I’ll watch you leave and think how fast
our time together passed.
Let me hold on longer, God,
to every precious last.

More ramblings

2010-01-25T23:01:00.002-06:00

It is again 11:00 and everyone is asleep. Seems to be a common thing around here. I stay up a little later than everyone just doing nothing. The house is completely quiet and I can just sit. And do nothing. I usually surf the net a little, or read a little. I cruise through Ebay and check our sales. We are currently selling my CPCU textbooks(boring insurance stuff). 9 of 12 books have bids. That's always fun. Then, I check out the cabins for sale at Lake Vermilion in Minnesota. I dream that some day we will buy one and create our own Camp Meyers for our kids and future grandkids and family to enjoy. Even though I said I was trying to cut back on the political stuff, I usually check out the Drudge Report to see what's up.

Lately I have been researching used conversion vans. I made the mistake of taking Andy and Pete to a used car lot and letting them get into a conversion van. They could not believe the recliners you can have in a car. Not to mention the cool mood lighting and TV. Andy will need a car to drive in a few months and is begging for a conversion van. Since our Santa Fe is too small for five adults to go more than about 20 miles, I am actually considering it. I really am getting old, aren't I? I also have to take into account that Bryant will be joining us now on some of our trips. We are planning a trip to Chicago in March and he is coming with us, so that is six adults.

Speaking of Bryant, he is in India right now on a month long mission trip. Lilli hasn't spoke with him in weeks and she is leaving in two weeks for Cambodia. So, she will be there while he is in India. Last night her cell phone rang and she didn't hear it. Unfortunately, it was Bryant calling and she missed it. His opportunities to use a phone are few and far between. She was really bummed about that.

That's about it. I guess I'm done rambling. I have to get back to Autotrader and look for that van.

2009-11-19T22:58:00.004-06:00

Well, it's 11:00 and everyone's asleep but me, so I thought I'd update our blog a little. Football season is over and Andy and Pete had a great year. Andy was the leading tackler for JV at 46 tackles. He also had an interception and a 2 pt. conversion. Pete had two touchdown catches and an interception also. I have added a couple football photos.

Andy kind of surprised us and went out for basketball at the last second. He hasn't played in a couple years. He is enjoying being part of the team. The new coach is our neighbor across the street.

Lilli went to a missionary conference in Illinois this weekend with a group from church . She has been working hard to raise money for her upcoming mission trip to Cambodia. We have even cleaned the UNI dome a few times. That is a pretty dirty job.

Laura is wrapping up another semester at Hawkeye and is enjoying her job a lot. She really is a great teacher and cares for her students. Well, there are a few... :)

Have you ever seen the chalkboards at Starbucks? We wondered what they used and they told us Chalkink. I bought a couple sets of the chalk markers and have been drawing on our chalkboard in our kitchen, changing with the seasons. I enjoy tapping my creative side sometimes. Laura has a chalkboard in her office that I decorate also. I have attached a couple photos of my most current projects.

We're looking forward to our trip to Ohio next week to spend Thanksgiving with Steve and Rebecca and the boys. That will be a fun time.

I know I am kind of rambling, but I am writing what is on my mind. So, I will conclude tonight with a truth that God has been working in my life. Over the past several years I was becoming more and more discouraged with the direction our country was heading. I found myself riding the highs and lows of day to day politics and it was really getting depressing.

Through prayer, reading God's word and growing in my faith, it became perfectly clear to me that God was telling me that the earth is not our home. There is no reason to believe that this world will move toward God and his plan for our lives. As a matter of fact, the Bible tells us that things on earth will only get worse until Jesus returns to bring justice. Focusing on political solutions with the hope that it would move this country toward God only set myself up for disappointment.

I have been more intentional in focusing on God and doing His will in my life to the best of my abilities. I have listened less to talk radio, read fewer Drudge Reports, and have replaced that with reading God's word more and listening to things that will put the focus on Him. I found that I as I have grown closer to God, I realized how far I was putting my hope in people and politics on not on Him.

I still relapse and listen to Rush or Glenn every now and then, and have been reading Drudge more with all that is happening, but each time it brings back that sick feeling in the pit of my stomach and I have to remember again to focus on God, not man. God is in control. He never said that things on earth would be easy or that Christians would be loved here. Just the opposite.

It's 11:45 now, so I 'd better get some sleep. Good night.

Joel

oops...

2009-10-19T21:03:00.001-05:00

just realized a typo! the name of my blog is actually: www.lillianmeyers.blogspot.com :)

Wow...

2009-10-19T20:03:00.002-05:00

...we never update our blog. :) TONS has happened since we last wrote anything, so I'll try to do a quick update. But...I am starting my own blog as well, that I intend to keep updated (hopefully!) and then I'll keep that going as I go to college and stuff. So, I'll try to just say what everyone's been up to since summer!

Andy- football, football, football! He started workouts with the team before school ended last year, did lots in the weight room to get ready, and now has 3 games a week! He's loving it though, and having a great season. He and I also detassled together this summer and he worked as a lifeguard. Andy's liking his sophomore year, and he's started coming to Big House (the Sr. High Wed. night program at church) and really likes it. Andy's been looking more into the Air Force Academy and is getting excited about possibly going into that.

Pete- Also, lots of football! He too, had a great season, and enjoyed having Dad as one of his football coaches. They both had a lot of fun with that. He's also coming to Big House and loves it! (esp. the crazy dodgeball time at the end of the night!) It's crazy that he's going to be in high school already next year! Pete's also doing soccer this year for a rec team.

Lilli- I've been really busy this year, but I'm lovin' my senior year! I work at a daycare and I really, really love my job. I'm involved in a lot of stuff at church and am doing an internship under my youth minister this year. I've also just been trying to get ready for college and taking lots of classes! I'm also just in a lot of clubs and groups at school.

Mom- Mom's been really busy this year going to all of the boys' games, teaching a bunch of classes at Hawkeye, and helping me get ready for college stuff. She's having a good, but crazy fall! My brothers and I are so blessed to have such a great mom! She's also been helping with a project at work to support the troops and she and Dad are joining a new Sunday School class at chuch.

Dad- Dad, Papa Meyers, and the boys all had a fun time going to Minnesota for a fishing trip over Labor Day. They caught some great fish and all had a good time together. Dad also got to help coach Pete's football team this year which he really enjoyed. He's also been busy with work and football games, like Mom. They are both such great parents, and so supportive! GOD truly blessed our whole family.

Sorry this is short and not into much detail, but we're going to try to take turns updating more often, and check out my new blog-www.lillimeyers.blogspot.com !
Jesus Loves YOU!

Catching Up...Again

2009-06-26T09:48:00.002-05:00

Every time one of us blogs...it seems like we're "catching up" on about 2 months of stuff :) So, I'm going to try to catch up and then get better about blogging more often! We've been really busy since school got out at the beginning of June. Andy's soccer team went to the State Soccer Tournament in Des Moines. That was really exciting, they ended up getting 4th in the state. Pete has been playing baseball and just got done yesterday. Andy has also been lifeguarding, taking Driver's Ed., and hanging out with friends a lot. Now that baseball is done, Pete plans on watching a lot of T.V. and swimming :) I've been working at the Day Care in town, taking a class at Hawkeye, and looking at some different colleges. I was a counselor at a church camp last week, that was a lot of fun. Andy and I are gearing up for detassling, too! Mom has been taking a class, too, and staying busy with Pete's baseball and stuff. Dad has been really busy at work, lots of storms lately. He had to spend the first few weeks of summer in Wichita, Kansas. Well, that kind of catches up what we've been doing! Hopefully we'll get better at this blogging thing. haha Have a good day! -lilli

Summer!!!

2009-05-30T22:07:00.002-05:00

This is Andy with our plans for this summer. Its almost summer break at G-R High School. School officially gets out Wednesday, June 3rd. Here are our summer plans.
Lilli- Lilli is working at the daycare in town. In July she will be detassling with me. I'll kind of be her boss. :-)
Pete- Pete is playing baseball this summer with the school team. He'll be golfing as well with his summer pass to the golf courses in Waterloo.
Andy- This summer I will be very busy. I am working at the pool as a lifegaurd. I also have drivers ed. In July I will be detassling again. I will also be golfing with Pete a lot.
Mom- Mom will be going to a lot of baseball games this summer. She'll also be reading and gardening. And she will be getting ready for her classes in the summer.
Dad- Dad will be working this summer. He will also be doing some projects around the house. He'll also golf with me and Pete.
We will be going up to Lake Vermillion this summer. The dates for that are the 25 till the 2nd of August or somethin like that.

Updates

2009-05-05T21:37:00.002-05:00

Hi everyone! Sorry I'm kind of a slacker when it comes to blogging...I'm addicted to Facebook so I don't get on here often. :) Well, I just thought I'd give you all updates on what's been going on in our lives.
Mom and Dad- They're still working, helping with lots of our school activities, and Mom's getting ready for the summer break. Dad helped make a lot of prom decorations.
Andy- He is playing soccer for the high school team right now and really liking it. He was really excited to be dressing Varsity. He's also getting ready for driver's ed. this summer (scary!). Andy plans on detasseling this summer and maybe working at the pool.
Pete- He's also playing soccer and is his team's goalie. He had a great game Saturday and made tons of saves! Pete is getting excited to go on his school trip to Washington, D.C. right after school gets out. He's also going to be playing baseball this summer.
Lilli- I just had prom last weekend and it was so fun! We had a really good time. :) On a different note, I've had a change of plans regarding this summer. I will not be going to the Dominican Republic. I had been feeling like GOD was telling me "you're not supposed to go this time, Lil" because my plans pretty much fell apart and I wasn't able to get plane tickets. Also, I talked to the missionaries there and they are going through a lot of changes in their children's/youth ministry right now and felt like it would not be a good learning experience for me. So, I am going to stay home this summer and help at a camp, do some local mission work, and start my internship under my youth minister early! I was disappointed but I know that obviously GOD did not want me there right now and it will still be a good summer! :) Thank you for your prayers and support. They were appreciated.
Have a great week! Jesus Loves YOU!

The Bahamas!

2009-04-03T18:48:00.002-05:00

We just got back from a great trip to Paradise Island, Bahamas last week! It was awesome. We spent lots of time by the pool and at the beach and relaxing in the sun. We also went to the Nassau side and saw the straw market. That's where local people sell things they've made like straw baskets, jewelry, purses, etc. It was a truly beautiful place and we had a good time all spending time together! I asked everybody their highlights from the trip and here they are:
Andy- swimming at the water park part of the resort and the Straw Market
Pete- movies in the resort theater and snorkeling
Mom-lazy river and no snow (!) :)
Dad- lazy river and all the beautiful tropical plants
Me- Straw Market and tanning by the pool!
It was a wonderful trip and we all enjoyed slowing down and being together. It was so beautiful-we really saw the beauty of HIS creation! We hope you are all having a great start to your spring! -lilli

New Phone Number

2009-03-04T21:04:00.000-06:00

Just a little heads up. We got rid of our landline so now we are going by Mom's cell phone. Her number is 239-0687.

Andy's Turn

2009-03-02T21:10:00.002-06:00

Hey everybody. Its my turn to run the blog so I'll do my best to make it awesome. I'll try and give it a hip new twist but we'll see what happens. So this is the Meyers' Family Blog Remix.

This Summer

2009-03-02T21:05:00.003-06:00

I think we are all really looking forward to this summer. Lilli is going to the Dominican Republic again this summer as an intern. Mom doesn't have a class for the summer yet. Dad is going to continue working at American Family. Pete is going to be golfing a lot this summer. I am planning on working (don't know for sure where yet) and detassling again. Betsy and Meg don't currently have plans.

Panther Basketball

2009-03-02T20:58:00.002-06:00

The UNI Panthers won Saturday night against the Evansville Purple Aces. They not only won the game but they won the whole conference, getting them a #1 seed in the Missouri Valley Conference Tournament. We are all pretty excited. Go Panthers!

Church Events

2009-03-02T20:53:00.001-06:00

We have all been participating in many church events. Lilli and I help lead our Monday night high school church group called FCR. Pete attends CHAOS (Christ Has All Our Solutions) on Wednesdays along with me. Lilli goes to Big House on Wednesdays. Its like CHAOS but for older people. On Sunday nights we go to youth group at Cedar Falls Church of Christ.

Mom and Dad Facebook

2009-03-02T20:47:00.001-06:00

Everyone with a facebook, we need your help. Me, Lilli, and Pete have been trying to get my parents to get a facebook page. So if you want them to join please say it in a comment on this post. We need your help.

Catching up

2009-02-28T14:01:00.005-06:00

Well, it's been quite a while since we last posted. In the last couple of months things have been busy as usual. Some highlights were Lilli's acceptance into the National Honor Society. I have posted a picture of the ceremony. We're really proud of her. Andy has been making some great gains in the weight room and in academics as well. He was in his first Speech competition today and did well. And Pete is getting ready to play Billy Bob in the upcoming "Fussin' and a-Feudein'" school performance. We had the kids' school conferneces this week and,(I know I am bragging, but I am really proud :) )there was nothing but A's all around.

We're getting packed up this weekend for our upcoming trip to the Bahama's to celebrate our 20th anniversary this year. We are staying near Atlantis in Nassau. We can't wait!!

We are contemplating ending this blog since everyone is using Facebook now. Laura and I have resisted having a Facebook page so far, since it can become a time usage issue. I avoided the word "waste", because I think it is great for the kids to be able to communicate regulary with family and friends. So, for now, Laura and I will keep up-to-date with everyone through Lilli, Andy or Pete.

As Tigger would say TTFN

19 things...

2008-12-18T21:55:00.003-06:00

I found this thing on Facebook the other day called, "19 Things." You're supposed to tell 16 random ideas/thoughts/ facts about yourself. Then, anyone who reads it can do it next! :) So, I'll tell you 19 things about our family.
1. Our favorite place in the world is Lake Vemillion, MN where we go every summer.
2. We love to go on family vacations.
3. Pete and Mom are the outgoing ones; Dad, Andy, and I are the more reserved ones.
4. We know almost every line from Saturday Night Live: Best of Will Ferrell. ;)
5. Our family bleeds UNI purple and gold!
6. Family games of choice-Scrabble and Tripoli
7. We LOVE to read!!
8. Kurt Warner is probably our family's hero. (haha)
9. Andy: wants to go the Airforce Academy, he's a really hard worker.
10. He loves weightlifting and working out.
11. Pete: wants to be a Forest Ranger at a National Park.
12. He can make anyone laugh and loves to give people gifts.
13. I am addicted to Facebook!
14. I love photography and working with kids, not sure how those 2 will fit together in my life!
15. Mom: is a reading teacher and is great at it.
16. She loves to knit, travel, and read books from the New Shelf at the library.
17. Dad: he works for American Family Insurance.
18. He likes camping, being outside, and is artistic.
19. Our family is a close, tight-knit family. We are so blessed!
Tag! You're it. It's your turn to write about yourself or your family :) Have fun! -lilli

Tripadvisor Map

2008-12-08T14:59:00.002-06:00

I've been "researching" our next family adventure lately and have spent countless hours on Tripadvisor, which is one of the best sites to check out before you go anywhere. I noticed that I could add our map to a blog, so I tried it, and it worked!! Anyway, I thought it was cool, so I thought I would point it out. I can't devulge any more about our plans, as it is a secret until December 25. See ya! Joel

2008-08-08T22:04:00.001-05:00

I couldn't get the slide show to work on the blog. But this hyperlink will get you to it.

http://www.slide.com/r/i1ZiSBtp6D8aM6AuoDjJ_1EFiytY63ei?previous_view=lt_embedded_url

PS

2008-08-07T17:41:00.002-05:00

PS-The Lamms(the missionaries in the Dominican) have a really neat blog: lammsinthedr.blogspot.com Check it out!

Dominican Republic!

2008-08-07T17:32:00.003-05:00

Hi Everybody!
I'm back from the Dominican Republic. We left on July 27 and got home August 5. It was the best week of my life. I had an amazing experience and can't wait to go back! I'd been praying for the last few months that I would know what it is that God wants me to do with my life. I'd been thinking a lot about becoming a missionary and when I got there, it was like a peace that the mission field is where God is leading me. I got to know the American missionaries really well, an intern that was there who went to Ozark Christian College for intercultural studies, and a guy who's starting that major in the fall. My prayer partner was also a missionary and she told me a lot about it. At the end of the week, the missionary Sandy, invited me to do an internship there next summer. I will be praying a lot about it, but I would really like to do it. Above are some pictures of the trip. It was awesome to see all the Lord is doing in that part of the world. Thanks for all the prayers and support! In HIM, Lilli

Check out my Slide Show!

2008-06-28T23:39:00.001-05:00

Check out my Slide Show!

2008-02-17T16:28:00.002-06:00

Check out my Slide Show!

2007-12-09T13:51:00.001-06:00